Thursday, April 21, 2011

OOTD: Expressing My Rebellion


I know.

I KNOW.

You guys didn't like this skirt.


I totally understood where you were coming from, too.  You noticed that it bunches a bit, seems a little bit tight, and that the pleats don't quite lay flat the way they should.  You very wisely pointed out that even a $20 skirt such as this one is not much of a bargain if it isn't something I would have purchased at a higher price, and that even the seemingly inconsequential sum of $20 may be better applied to other things.

Your advice did not fall on deaf ears.

But...I just really like this skirt.

I don't know why, but I'll try to verbalize it.  The color makes me happy.  I like that it's structured and tough and different in shape from many of my other skirts.  I tried it on again this morning---after eating more than twice my daily weight watchers pointsplus target in ONE MEAL at dinner, mind you!---and it felt comfortable and not tight.  (PS: I tried on the bigger size in this skirt, a size 8, and it was way too bulky.)  I've been deliberating for a week, and I've come to the conclusion that my feelings for this skirt are not entirely rooted in the fact that it only cost $20, but also in the fact that I like it.  So I assembled an outfit, walked around in it a bit, and then took the plunge and ripped the tags off the skirt.

And ya know what?  I still like it!


In an effort to explain my feelings about this skirt---and to avoid feeling like that girl who asks for advice and then doesn't take it even when it's practically unanimous---I figured out a way to express myself...

...through a mathematical expression.

Bear with me.

Jewish Girl's Theory of [Bargain-Hunting] Relativity:

Ci ≤ [(Ax)Cro] / D%

Where:
Ci = Cost of an item
A = Subjective attractiveness of the item (on a scale of 1-5, 5 being most attractive)
x = Number of times the item will be worn per month (estimate)
Cro = Number of compliments expected to be received per outing (estimate)
D= Discounted percentage, calculated as Ci/Co Where Co is the original cost of the item (basically, what percentage of the original price does the item currently cost?  i.e., an item that is marked down by 80% only costs 20% of its original price, thus D% would be 0.2).

Then:
I will buy a sale item if the cost is less than or equal to its attractiveness times the number of times I expect to wear it per month, to the power of the number of compliments I expect to receive on the item per outing, all divided by the percentage discount expressed as a decimal.

Therefore (), conditions are most favorable to the purchase of the item if:
1. Its current price is low
2. It is really attractive
3. It will get a lot of use
4. It is expected to get more than one compliment per outing (even if it's not objectively pretty and will not be worn very often)
5. It is marked down significantly from its original price (indicating good quality and thus good sale value)


Does your own bargain-hunting equation take into account similar factors as mine?  Do you care as much about getting compliments as I apparently do?  Note that if I don't expect to get any compliments on the item, then its attractiveness and use are rendered irrelevant since anything to the power of 0 is 1---and then I would only buy the item if it's $10 and 90% off, basically.  (Of course, I almost always expect to receive at least one compliment per outing for everything I buy, especially from Anthro...)


So, applying my theory to the Runny Yoke Skirt...

C = 20
A = 3.5
x = 2
Cro = 1
D=  0.2 (1 minus 19.95/98)

20 ≤ 71/0.2
20 ≤ 35

∴ PURCHASE

I hope that makes things a bit clearer.*

In This Outfit:
Keeping Tabs Tee (Anthro) (S)
Runny Yoke Skirt (Anthro) (6) ($20 here; I'd say this was TTS)
Stormy Plaid Tights (Anthro) (M/L)
Code Pumps (Seychelles) (9) ($63 here in many colors, free shipping both ways, or $40 here without free shipping; TTS)
Poms & Trinkets Necklace (Anthro)
Enamel Bow Posts (Anthro)
Fossil Watch (similar here)
Gone to 'Frisco Ponytail Holder (Anthro)


* What?  Why are you looking at me like that?  

Wednesday, April 20, 2011

OOTD: Passover Inspiration

At the risk of heaping a bit more "Jewish" on you this week than usual, I wanted to share today's OOTD, which I assembled with my ultimate evening destination in mind:  a seder with the family of one of my Birthright friends.

A seder is the traditional dinner we have during the holiday of Passover, in which we tell the story of the Jewish people's exodus from Egypt.  The story has a lot of gory elements (Jewish slavery/abuse at the hands of Egyptians PLUS horrible plagues visited on the Egyptians, including pestilence, boils, and the murder of each first-born son).  I felt like wearing something thematic, but the plagues leaved something to be desired, inspiration-wise.

Perhaps unsurprisingly, I chose to focus on fish instead.  The whole Nile-turning-to-blood-and-killing-the-fish thing, then the parting of the Red Sea, where fish undoubtedly lived, and finally the undying Jewish tradition of eating gefilte fish.  Fish.  Much more attractive to print on a dress than boils or pestilence.

An Exodus-Worthy OOTD
Unfortunately, you get a polyvore set no real picture because by the time I got home, I was nursing a food pregnancy the size of higher-order multiples and I was not about to memorialize that moment on film.

Needless to say, I enjoyed an immense amount of absolutely amazing food and truly heartwarming hospitality!  I expect to feel hungry again at some point within the next week, although I'm not sure exactly when that will be...

In this outfit:
Anthro Shadowsleeve Cardigan (M)
Anthro Sketched Danios Dress (4)
Anthro Cockle Shells Tights (M/L)
Target Taree Oxfords in Cognac (9) ($20 here)

Monday, April 18, 2011

Middle East Recap: Days 7 and 8

[Catch up: Days 1 & 2, Day 3, Days 4 & 5, Day 6]

March 15, 2011: In Which We're Reminded How Awesome Life Is After All

Yesterday could not have been a more marked contrast from the sad solemnity of Yad Vashem the day before.  After breakfast at our hostel yesterday morning, we hiked Nachal Jilabun, a canyon in the Golan region of Israel (the light blue region in the upper right corner of the map below).


Nahal Jilabun was the most fantastic hike I've ever been on in my life.  Okay, in fairness, I don't go on many hikes.  But truly, this hike was the kind of experience that makes me want to buy some hiking shoes and take up the hobby.  The canyon vistas were gorgeous, featuring lushly rolling green hills and steep cliff faces.  We heard the story of an Israeli spy who went undercover with the Syrian army in this area.  The Golan area borders Syria, and this chunk of land used to belong to them.  In fact, it may still be disputed territory.

A Syrian army building.

Close-up of the bullet holes in the building.

We observed the wreckage of the Syrian army buildings, which were all surrounded by eucalyptus trees.  The trees owe their lives to this Israeli spy, who convinced the Syrians to plant the trees to shade their military buildings, in the process tipping off the Israeli forces to the location of the army (Eucalyptus marked the spot).

In a eucalyptus.  Photo courtesy of Sara.

Amazingly, while we listened to this story, we watched as first a few birds, then a flock, then almost a thousand flew in front of us and then just stopped midair.  A thermal patch had formed right in front of us over the canyon, and the migratory birds were riding the warm air to greater heights, floating and looping and crisscrossing in tired, loping lines, eventually reaching the top of the patch and flying onwards, continuing their long journey.


The rest of the hike did not disappoint from there.  We crossed creeks by carefully stepping on wet stones and swinging from tree branches; we used both hands to climb up and down the rocks; we jumped and climbed.  It was difficult and tested my agility, but it was such a fun time.  It made me resolve to spend more time exploring the outdoors in the future.  When we finished, the group agreed that it was one of the best things we've done on this entire trip.



The hike itself was pretty strenuous, and it ended with a ten minute climb up a steep hill that spilled out into the parking area.  It will come as no surprise, then, that this enterprising ice cream man who parked himself next to our tour bus made a killing when we reached the top of the hill.  Photo courtesy of Donnie.

After the hike, we had lunch and explored the nearby area via a "scavenger hunt."  I actually hated this activity; we had to run around asking people to dance the hora with us or let us take pictures with their kids.  I felt like the very definition of an obnoxious American.

Scavenger hunt item.  Bottom row: Jared, Sara, Ross.  Top: Laura, Becky.  Photo courtesy of Ross.

Fortunately, the scavenger hunt was just a blip on the radar of an otherwise perfect day.  From there, we proceeded to the Golan Heights Winery where we toured the facilities and sampled three different wines.  I didn't like any of them---the chardonnay and merlot were to acidic and the muscat was far too sweet.



Free wine + fun photo op = I don't care whether the wine is good or bad.

Just when I thought my wallet was safe from indulgent foodstuffs, we crossed the street and entered an olive press, where they make olive oil and olive oil-based products from olive trees grown along the Jordan river.  We learned a bit about how the oil is made and then got to sample several kinds.  Capernaum's olive oil is unfiltered, which is delicious and better for your health, but it somewhat difficult/expensive to find in the states since it has a worse shelf life.  I love olive oil, and I was happy to support a local business, so I absolutely stocked up!  I even bought a wonderful body scrub made from crushed olive pits, olive oil, and lemongrass.  We tried some on our tour---it goes on with the consistency of muddy jelly and leaves your skin feeling soft and smooth.  (Prices were cheaper over there.)

Inside the olive press.

With my several pounds of olive oil safely stored on the bus, we drove to Hamei Tveria, where we relaxed in a natural salt water hot spring.


By the end of this decadent, wonderful day, I was so exhausted that I fell asleep in the middle of an Israeli cultural music activity!  I went straight to bed afterwards, even though there were some after-hours festivities occurring.  I needed my full eight hours!

It was pretty clear at breakfast this morning---at 7:15am---which of us had gotten sleep and which of us had more fun. :-D

We spent the first half of today in the town of Tsfat (also spelled Safed), which is one of four holy Jewish cities in Israel.  Tsfat is the birthplace of Jewish mysticism and the study of Kabbalah is still much practiced there.  (See here.)



We spoke with two American ex-pats who now live and study in Tsfat, one of whom discovered Kabbalah as a college student at U.Mich and has been in Tsfat for the last fifteen years.  He now works as a graphic artist, and most of his work is an interpretation of various Kabbalic teachings.  Each piece comes with a page that explains the symbolism and significance of the piece.

I bought a print depicting the dual nature of humanity, as well as the competing forces within ourselves to give and to take; the message of the image, as well as of Kabbalah, is to elevate our selfish selves into a more selfless self.

Tashuv-Hey, by Avraham Lowenthal.  Courtesy of Avraham Lowenthal, here.

Something about this message really resonated with me.  Interestingly, the Kabbalistic interpretation of my Hebrew name---your given name carries a great deal of importance in Kabbalah---mentions this conflict within me.  I think the struggle to be less selfish and to do for others is probably a universal quest, but I felt particularly vindicated in my purchase after reading that.

The artist himself was quite a character:

The artist, Avraham Lowenthal.  Image courtesy Avraham Lowenthal, here.

This guy was, literally, high on life.  He explained, simplifying, of course, that the main message of Kabbalah is that all beings should ultimately give and receive infinite happiness---or as he put it---to "toooottalllly bliiiisssss ouuuuuuttttt!"  Kabbalah implicates interesting questions of the interplay between predestination and free will, and basically asks people to move from the physical desire to get to the spiritual desire to give.  Certainly something many religions value, and it's nice to find it in Judaism, too.

We had some time to go shopping.  I bought a few trinkets, including a hamsa and a dreidel.  The dreidel purchase was inspired by the revelation that dreidels are different in Israel than in the US.  Let me back up---for those who don't know, a dreidel is the spinning top we play with on Channukah.  We wager candy coins on each spin, and the amount of candy you win depends on which letter lands face-up.  One of the first things Jewish children learn to do is probably to play dreidel.  On the four sides of the dreidel are four Hebrew letters---nun, gimmel, hay, shin---which represent the words "nes gadol haya sham," or "a great miracle happened there." The miracle being that the little bit of lamp oil lasted the Maccabees for eight nights (hence the eight nights of Channukah).  (For a catchy musical retelling of the Channukah story, watch the adorable Yeshiva University's Maccabeats video here.)

A typical dreidel.  The letters showing are hay (on top) and shin (on the bottom; the one that looks like a "w").  You may recognize this image as my default user picture for those of you who comment without a Disqus account :-D

But in Jerusalem, the dreidels have a pay instead of a shin---"nes gadol haya poh"---"a great miracle happened HERE," in the land of Israel.  Of course I needed one!

Hay-Pay ("Haya Poh") instead of Hay-Shin ("Haya Sham").

Hamsa.

I also bought a bunch of Shabbat candles, an embellished matchbox, and some Channukah candles to go inside the menorah I bought a few days ago:

Channukah candles.

Shabbat candles.

Matchbox.

One of the things I've been trying to feel out on this trip is the role I want my religion to play in my life in the future.  This is a very difficult and complicated question for me.  I was raised "Jew-ish," in which I learned Hebrew prayers and customs in Sunday school, went to temple twice a year for high holy days, and was Bat Mitzvah-ed.  Each generation of my family has seemingly become less and less religiously observant.  I am now dating an ex-Catholic agnostic and don't feel much connection to the religious rituals of Judaism.

This trip made me wonder a bit how to feel more Jewish when all I really do is eat bagels and maintain this domain name.  I'd like to do a little more.  While some Jewish services feel a bit formalistic and culty for me, and I haven't quite found a Jewish community I feel comfortable with, I think it might be nice to take a few moments to light Shabbat candles and reflect a bit---perhaps be a bit more meditative on Shabbat (Saturday pre-sundown).  I don't know.  I'll experiment and see what feels comfortable.  Suddenly though, the idea of being a totally nonobservant Jew doesn't particularly appeal to me.  At least not right now.

In any case, the candles are my commitment to attempt to figure it out.

The candle shop, incidentally, was amazing.  The artists in the store hand-sculpted amazing "candles."  I put the word in quotes since, even though these pieces were made of wax and had wicks in them, I can't imagine anyone ever lighting one up!

Samson candle.

Noah's Ark candle.  ALL WAX!

We finished the afternoon with a lovely nature walk around Mount Meiron, where we could see for many miles around the Israel-Lebanon border.



The border between the countries was easy to distinguish; the INF (Israel National Fund) is diligent about planting trees throughout the country, but obviously do not plant anything in other countries.  You can clearly make out the border because the Israeli trees come to an abrupt end!

Can you see where the green ends and the brown begins?

Sunday, April 17, 2011

Fitting Room Reviews: Tip Tops

Amplified Stripes Blouse, $98 here




This Odille top didn't jump out at me at first, but I saw it on Molly and loved it.  I'm wearing a size four in these pictures (I'm usually a small).  The fit seemed fine; I may have been able to size down for a more fitted look around the torso, but since the top felt comfortable around the arms I didn't try.  The top also comes in a blue motif.  Pictured is the "red" motif, which is really more of an orange color.

The blouse is a bit see-through, but there's enough space underneath for a base layer.  I liked the bold color of the red motif and the light silky fabric is a great summer top.  $98 is a bit too steep for me for this blouse (as is $50 usually), but I'd consider it on second cut.  If your budget is bigger, I'm sure this top will get a lot of wear for the next six months.


Billie Shirt, $30 here




I reviewed this top already here, but only posted pictures of the neutral colorway.  I preferred the neutral colorway since I think it will get more wear/go with more things, but I'm retyping my review below for your convenience:

See-through? Yes? (Less so than the neutral version, but you can still see the shape of my light blue bra under this shirt.)  Pretty, flowy, and versatile? Also yes. I think this will look good with jeans and will look good tucked into a skirt. The fabric is buttery soft and feels light and airy. There's more than enough room for a tanktop underneath to keep me modest. I'm wearing my normal size small here and it felt fine. The XS might have fit, too, but I think this top is meant to be a little roomy.

I do agree with Sian that the little tie in the bottom corner of the top is more or less useless, but I don't think it detracts from the shirt. Since purchasing the neutral colorway on sale, I wore it once (both tucked into a skirt and over cords) and it was everything I hoped it would be---delightfully comfortable and versatile enough to go from pants to skirts.


Rodeo Feat Blouse, $128 here





I never noticed this Ellie Meant blouse online, but in real life it appealed to me due to its whimsical pattern and light silk-like fabric.  In reality, this blouse is actually polyester, which makes its $128 price tag even more offensive.

I'm wearing my normal size small.  The peephole in the chest is a bit obtrusive in the way that all peepholes are kind of obtrusive, and the waist-tie is somewhat useless.  I thought the top looked cute tucked into a skirt, but it was a bit shapeless when loose.  As you can tell, it's also quite see-through:


What I liked most about this top was the cute pattern and the light weight of the fabric.  Overall, I think this top is cute but I find myself furious at its pricetag.  This isn't worth more than $30 or $40 in my opinion, and the fact that it costs more than twice that makes me angry.  Come ON, Anthro.  REALLY?


Bespoke Yoke Tee, $78 here




Hooray, I'm excited about this one!  A nice, basic white tee with a classy, ladylike twist.  Not to mention that, once it hits sale, it will actually be at a reasonable ($40) price!  I like the fact that this white top will go with everything (as do most white tops) while still providing the visual interest of the lace.

I'm wearing my normal size small here and I think it fit fine, albeit a bit loose in the torso.  I didn't try sizing down, but I will before I buy (on sale).  (I'll edit this review once I try on the XS.)  The top was comfortable; what you see is what you get as far as fit and comfort.  It's a bit see-through, and the lace shoulders/back mean you'd need a tanktop and/or a strapless bra to hide your undergarments.

Overall, I'm planning to pick this one up!  If you can believe it, I don't actually have a trusty white tee!


Doolin Cardigan, $30 in stores



The Doolin Cardigan by Moth got a second cut to $30 on Tuesday.  It's not available online anymore as far as I know, but you may still be able to find it in stores.

This piece is not at all worth buying, even for $30.  The material is kind of scratchy and it's WAY oversized.  I'm wearing a size small here (I usually take a medium in cardis) and as you can tell it's still way too big.  It's not even big in the comfy, boyfriend-style sweater type of way.  It's big in the it's-way-too-big-for-you type of way.

Bonus points for the pockets, but still, don't waste your money.
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